I wonder if that "oem" headgasket the clown sold you is even oem. This is an oem atc gasket & the rivets & rivet tabs look different:

and this used one is a trx gasket, I checked the rivet tabs against the new oem gasket I put on my bike last year & there the same:

Yep, I have an true OEM used gasket here that came off of one of these top ends,,,,,,the rivets don't look like the ones on the "ground OEM". Those big rivets SUCK!